Yes and No. Like AA/NA, we are
abstinence-based. We are a group for people who have
learned through experience that the only solution that works for
us is to abstain completely.
Unlike AA/NA, we see the power to get
clean and sober inside each person. Through the positive
reinforcement of the group process, that power becomes dominant
in each person and enables us to lead clean and sober lives.
No. We cooperate with
many treatment programs but our group
leaders as a rule are ordinary persons in
recovery. Most groups meet about an
hour each week.
No. The
proportion of churchgoers and others in
LifeRing is about the same as in the general
population. Since the LifeRing
recovery process does not rely on a "higher
power" or similar concepts, LifeRing
participants' religious and/or spiritual
beliefs remain private and don't become an
issue in the meeting.
We value confidentiality and protect our members'
anonymity, but we permit members to disclose their own participation if they
feel that being open will strengthen their recovery.
Our meetings are non-smoking. We do not require people to quit smoking in order to
participate in our groups, but we
provide encouragement, education and support for quitting whenever the person feels ready.
The hallmark of a
quality treatment program is to match the
treatment to the individual. We adopt
that same approach in our self-help work.
We encourage each participant to work out
their own particular path and to use the
group process as a workshop for that
purpose. We publish a workbook,
"Recovery by Choice," as a tool for
building one's personal recovery program.
Formats vary, but at
most meetings the topic is "How Was Your
Week?" Each person reports on the
highlights and heartaches of their past week
and plans ahead for the decisions of the
coming week. Conversation ("cross-talk") is
encouraged. Personal drinking/drugging
histories ("drunkalogues") are discouraged.
The meeting ends with a round of applause to
one another for staying clean and sober.
Sponsors in 12-step
programs play two main roles: they guide the
newcomer through the 12 Step Program and
they are available for support between
meetings. In LifeRing we each work out
personal programs, so there is no real role
for a Program guide. We do very much
value supportive contacts between meetings,
and we circulate phone and email lists at
meetings for that purpose. In that
sense, all the participants in a meeting
sponsor one another.
LifeRing is
successful for people who find this approach
a good fit. If you would like to meet such
people, come to a LifeRing meeting. If you
are a social scientist and would like to
conduct an outcomes study, we would be happy
to cooperate.
This website is a
good place to start. There are
also brochures that provide introductions.
The Lifering 101 CD gives an
overview. The book How Was Your
Week? provides more extended discussion
and background. The Recovery by
Choice workbook is a tool for building
your personal recovery program. The
Presenting LifeRing Secular Recovery
book speaks to treatment professionals. You
can order them
here, or you can pick up a copy at most
LifeRing meetings. You can contact the
LifeRing Service Center at 1-800-811-4142
(510-763-6946) or
service@lifering.org.
*Some questions come up again and again when we present
LifeRing Recovery at treatment centers and when I read the email to
webmaster.
Here are my answers. Have other questions? Have better
answers? Send them in. -- Marty N, webmaster.